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General => Boards => Archive => Other Discussion => Topic started by: Kaede on October 09, 2008, 05:24:25 pm
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Yeah another sex-related topic from me ... but I'm just curious XD
So, first question: Are guys as concerned about their virginity as girls are?
As far as I know, most girls tend to want to lose their virginity to someone "special". I'm not talking about waiting till marriage blah blah. As a guy, do/did you mind who you lost your virginity too? Do you ever regret losing it to the person (if you're not a virgin)? Do you ever think you lost your virginity too soon? Do you want to be "in love" before you lose your virginity (if you're a virgin)? If you're not a virgin, do you care who you have sex with now that you're not a virgin (as in, do you have to be "in love" with the person)?
2nd question: Would it bother you if you only ever had sex with one person throughout your entire life?
Like you spend your life with the person you lost your virginity to and you never had any sexual encounter with anybody else, would you regret not having experimented and had fun with others? Or would you be glad that there was only one person special enough to do that stuff with?
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It is difficult to speak generally, but a huge amount of testosterone will lead men to want to lose something; however, a significant number of men do not equate sex with feelings, it is more or less a perk of the relationship. I would rather that I be in love if I ever pursued something like that as even though I am an emotionally cold person, I would rather warm up to someone and not shiver forever.
It would not bother me if I only had sex with one person in my life, but I cannot really speak of something I know little about. As a human I should be into wanting to procreate and be communal with people, but in all honesty, that's a lot of work. It's odd to think this way, but I would rather have friends than lovers; although if my mind were impaired by alcohol I would be a total man !@#$%, my manhood is like a fat, rounded compass that points in the direction of sexy holes, but my mind keeps me fixed on other pursuits.
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I lost my virginity to a girl I had only just met. It was at a party; neither of us were drunk. She started dating one of my friends for a long time about a few months after the incident, and though they have broken up now, I am still friends with both of them. Me and her have only discussed it once. I kind of wish I'd lost my virginity to someone I cared a bit more for (not only romantically, but also as a person in general...>_>), but I don't really live in regret. I've only had sex with one other girl since then, one I did care about, and I don't regret it. Most of the girls I've done other stuff with have been casual things.
Would it bother me to be totally monogamous? If the sex was really THAT great, then no, absolutely not. Loving the person would also obviously be a condition for that.
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Yeah, first time would preferably be with someone I 'care' about (which in my mind means someone I am at least in the 'lust' stage of love towards), though if it wasn't then I don't think I'd be toooo bothered. I'd never lose my virginity to a prostitute, and I'd rather not lose it to a 'local bike', but that's more of a pride thing than anything else. Then again, Penis says yes, Brain says no, guess which one will probably end up winning <_<
From what I've heard, with sex, women want a perfect, romantic experience. Life don't work like that, your first kiss is almost always !@#$%, usually the same with your first shag (especially if you are both virgins, which could be described as a naked fumble-fest). I'll admit, if I were to describe my perfect sex as I imagine it, it is a very sensual, passionate romantic affair (I believe the position I imagine is called "The Locus"?), but that's probably the part of my mind that works on a 'short-term-loss, long-time-gain' system taking over, because I know if they enjoy it more, they'll be more likely to come back for more or mention it to their friends or something which benefits me in the long run...yeah, I'm smooth like that :-\
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Don't let mammy in!!!
Having no expierience in the field (duh) I'll go ahead and try to answer:
1st. No prostitutes, please. That would be just... lame.
2nd. Would it bother you if you only ever ate the same food throughout your entire life?
If the person's 'special' to me, I guess I wouldn't really care. As long as it's always as fun... :P.
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I'm still trying to decide whether or not I regret losing it really. I suppose on the one hand it's not that huge a deal because life goes on and it never really comes up in day to day life, but at times there's a small sense of regret that it wasn't with someone I cared more for. In reality it might have been a bit soon for something like that, but whatever. Now that it's done and in the past it's not that big a deal anymore. It *was* enjoyable though so in another sense I don't regret it that much.
Secondly, it wouldn't bother me if it was with the person that I planned to be with for the rest of my life, but at the same time, since I don't have that kind of dedication to anyone at the moment.. I wouldn't limit myself, for now :p.
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I'm still trying to decide whether or not I regret losing it really. I suppose on the one hand it's not that huge a deal because life goes on and it never really comes up in day to day life, but at times there's a small sense of regret that it wasn't with someone I cared more for. In reality it might have been a bit soon for something like that, but whatever. Now that it's done and in the past it's not that big a deal anymore. It *was* enjoyable though so in another sense I don't regret it that much.
Secondly, it wouldn't bother me if it was with the person that I planned to be with for the rest of my life, but at the same time, since I don't have that kind of dedication to anyone at the moment.. I wouldn't limit myself, for now :p.
I !@#$% knew that would be your answer.
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nb4 mammy deflowers this topic
and yes, I'd prefer to lose it to someone I care about
discuss.
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I !@#$% knew that would be your answer.
Um what...? why... how. XD
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I !@#$% knew that would be your answer.
Um what...? why... how. XD
Just ignore the local troll :P. Don't feed it please.
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nb4 mammy deflowers this topic
and yes, I'd prefer to lose it to someone I care about
discuss.
This.
Honestly, most guys my age and pretty much a lot of my friends have already lost theirs, I however want to wait.
I've been teased multiple times cause I haven't lost it yet but I know it's a joke so I just ignore it.
Edit: To add, I really take advantage of it anyways as a lot of girls that ask if I still am find it really cute that I still am one, so I'm all 'sup babes'.
I don't want to lose it to any random girl I meet at a party or something (lol dantz etc). I want to lose it to a girl I... let's say... 'I like so much that I'd do anything for her" as I don't believe in love at such a young age, most of the time it's fake bull or just kids who think they know what love is.
tl;dr I'M A !@#$%, I'M A LOVER.
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I find it !@#$% annoying how people look down on you for being a virgin, and how girls obviously won't want to sleep with a virgin either. It's a horrible circle.
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I find it !@#$% annoying how people look down on you for being a virgin, and how girls obviously won't want to sleep with a virgin either. It's a horrible circle.
!@#$% YOU VIRGIN.
Too bad you don't live near me, I know tons of girls who prefer virgins.
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I'm a virgin and quite happy with it. I also only like girls who are virgins too because I have this thing about, well, disliking girls who have done stuff like that.
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I'm a virgin and quite happy with it. I also only like girls who are virgins too because I have this thing about, well, disliking girls who have done stuff like that.
So after you have sex with a girl, and she asks you a few weeks later if you want to do it again... You'd say no because she's no longer a virgin? :o
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All my friend both boys and girls are virgin >_>, I frankly don't care, I want to have sex but I do want it with someone special not with a dumb girl. IMO I don't care if you are virgin or not, but I care if you know how to move on bed XD.
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1. Well..yea, I'd rather be in love first and lose it to someone who you know..matters to me. So, I guess that means I'm ready to lose it O_o wow, never thought I'd be able to say that.
2. No.
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1: The first guy I was with was really...sweet. I liked him a lot. No regrets. I've only had sex with one other guy since, and he...uhhhhh....not so much. (also he kind of sucks in bed....in a bad way >_>)
2: Well I've already done it with more than one guy, and I can tell you that no, I'd definately NOT want to only do it with one person ever! Life is too short to not try a little variety in your life! I think it was Darunia that compared it to only ever eating one food, which I though was fairly spot-on. Though that being said, Life would REALLY suck if you only ever ate one food.
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I find it !@#$% annoying how people look down on you for being a virgin, and how girls obviously won't want to sleep with a virgin either. It's a horrible circle.
Actually girls won't give a rats ass if you've got game. From there you've broken the alleged circle and you're golden.
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I wanna lose my virginity to Swoftu.
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I wanna lose my virginity to Swoftu.
I'm saving it for cakefarts
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I find it !@#$% annoying how people look down on you for being a virgin, and how girls obviously won't want to sleep with a virgin either. It's a horrible circle.
Actually girls won't give a rats ass if you've got game. From there you've broken the alleged circle and you're golden.
hmm yeah, same here.. Well, not exactly, mostly because girls don't know if you are virgin or not, seriously who the !@#$% tell a girl that he is virgin >_>? the only way is that one of your buddies tell a girl about it, but still, if he does that he isn't a buddy really >_<.
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I find it !@#$% annoying how people look down on you for being a virgin, and how girls obviously won't want to sleep with a virgin either. It's a horrible circle.
Actually girls won't give a rats ass if you've got game. From there you've broken the alleged circle and you're golden.
hmm yeah, same here.. Well, not exactly, mostly because girls don't know if you are virgin or not, seriously who the !@#$% tell a girl that he is virgin >_>? the only way is that one of your buddies tell a girl about it, but still, if he does that he isn't a buddy really >_<.
Well you might tell a girl you are a virgin. If you know she's a virgin it'd be a first time for everyone and you'd probably feel better about it. Then again, what do I know? I'm 13, I shouldn't even be in this topic. :P
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hmm yeah, same here.. Well, not exactly, mostly because girls don't know if you are virgin or not, seriously who the !@#$% tell a girl that he is virgin >_>? the only way is that one of your buddies tell a girl about it, but still, if he does that he isn't a buddy really >_<.
If a girl asked me if I were a virgin I'd tell her. Why the hell would I get a friend to tell her? That's just plain stupid.
HUR HUR TELL HER IM VIRGIN MEBE SHE LIKE ME.
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If a girl asked me if I were a virgin I'd tell her. Why the hell would I get a friend to tell her? That's just plain stupid.
HUR HUR TELL HER IM VIRGIN MEBE SHE LIKE ME.
You must have misunderstood. I'm fairly certain he meant if your friend was being a JERK and went up to some girl you like and is all "Oh haha he's a virgin", cockblocking you.
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When it happens it happens, no need to rush, and if I feel ready and if I have circumstances which suit me at that time, why not? If I'm a forty-year-old virgin, so be it.
And for the whole "Only having one sexual partner" thing, It'd help to prevent STI's, but
I wouldn't care either way, what happens, happens. Honestly, Sex is most commonly done for pleasure, or for symbolizing love, really, there are other alternatives which aren't overused to express love and to have fun, Sex is really an act of procreation.
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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1075289/No-sex-secret-long-life-says-105-year-old-Clara-Britains-oldest-virgin.html?ITO=1490
what if you're 105?
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I'm a forty-year-old virgin, so...
I read itlike that and was like, huh?? :P.
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Though your friends pointing out you are a Virgin may be a nice thing really, it all depends on how. They could just be looking out for you, you know, telling the girl since it's your first time she can't really expect toooo much out of you or something along those lines.
Also if it's the persons first time you probably feel like it's your duty to make it special, so if you know about it you can plan the rose petals and the chocolate and the candle-light dinner XD.
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I am a virgin, and I'd say:
1. I wouldn't care that much about who I have sex with, of course it's better if you are "in love" with the girl/guy, but if you don't, it doesn't really matter, for me sex is more or less just an act of self-pleasure.
2. It'd bother me if I only ever had sex with one person, as Aliento said, life is too short, so I'd rather prefer to have sex with several girls than to stick with one my entire life.
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I dream of a day when I can go into a church confessional, and by confessing the number of women I have had sex with give the priest a heart attack.
I also dream of a day when they are no churches, so I'm not really quite sure what I want really :P
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I find it !@#$% annoying how people look down on you for being a virgin, and how girls obviously won't want to sleep with a virgin either. It's a horrible circle.
So you're just guessing? :P
Because, quite honestly, I think that it only really matters to a girl if she's a !@#$%.
As to be honest, most virgin guys are pretty clued up about what they have to do during sex, they just havent applied it yet, cos of porn and such.
Personally, sometimes I wish my boyfriend had been a virgin too, but meh.
And if a girl isnt a virgin but the guy is, it may be awkward for the girl as she might feel bad for taking the guy's virginity, if the girl is a typical girl ...
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Really, odd they should consider it an honour, or maybe the "Aww yeah, I'm good enough to take their virginity." train of thought just applies to guys...probably ones with self-esteem issues.
Anyhoo: Boobies.
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From what I've heard, with sex, women want a perfect, romantic experience.
In that case, you have a very, very incorrect view about most women. Believe it or not, some of them just like...you know...!@#$%.
in b4 someone says "THOSE GIRLS ARE JUST SLUTS XD" because obviously, enjoying sex as a female makes you a !@#$%.
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I meant for their first time. Then again, I think really everyone wants that, something so wonderful they can brag about it as being the greatest way to lose your virginity :P
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Yeah another sex-related topic from me ... but I'm just curious XD
So, first question: Are guys as concerned about their virginity as girls are?
As far as I know, most girls tend to want to lose their virginity to someone "special". I'm not talking about waiting till marriage blah blah. As a guy, do/did you mind who you lost your virginity too? Do you ever regret losing it to the person (if you're not a virgin)? Do you ever think you lost your virginity too soon? Do you want to be "in love" before you lose your virginity (if you're a virgin)? If you're not a virgin, do you care who you have sex with now that you're not a virgin (as in, do you have to be "in love" with the person)?
2nd question: Would it bother you if you only ever had sex with one person throughout your entire life?
Like you spend your life with the person you lost your virginity to and you never had any sexual encounter with anybody else, would you regret not having experimented and had fun with others? Or would you be glad that there was only one person special enough to do that stuff with?
1st Answer: I can't speak for everyone here, but I found it important to find someone I really care about before losing mine. But then again; I was 16 at the time... Not that it matters <_<;;
2nd Answer: I would prefer that I had only had sex with 1 person for the rest of my life; the person I want to be with forever. Sadly, the woman I had been willing to go through that for left me :(
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2nd Answer: I would prefer that I had only had sex with 1 person for the rest of my life; the person I want to be with forever. Sadly, the woman I had been willing to go through that for left me :(
And now you have a list of women, all of whom you have sex with repeatedly...to the therapy-mobile!
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2nd Answer: I would prefer that I had only had sex with 1 person for the rest of my life; the person I want to be with forever. Sadly, the woman I had been willing to go through that for left me :(
And now you have a list of women, all of whom you have sex with repeatedly...to the therapy-mobile!
whoa nelly lol I never said I sex them up repeatedly XD I just juggle between 2 or 3 of them
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1st: I wanted to lose it to a girl that meant alot to me, and I did...but she ended up leaving me <_<
2nd: I would also prefer to have sex with 1 girl for the rest of my life. But it wont happen. I seem to of grown this natural ability to make girls hate me all the time now...whoops <_<
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I dream of a day when I can go into a church confessional, and by confessing the number of women I have had sex with give the priest a heart attack.
I also dream of a day when they are no churches, so I'm not really quite sure what I want really :P
I don't get that- what's wrong with religion?
Anyway, keeping it on topic, I !@#$% hate being a virgin. Sooner I lose it, the better.
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I dream of a day when I can go into a church confessional, and by confessing the number of women I have had sex with give the priest a heart attack.
I also dream of a day when they are no churches, so I'm not really quite sure what I want really :P
I don't get that- what's wrong with religion?
Anyway, keeping it on topic, I !@#$% hate being a virgin. Sooner I lose it, the better.
Prostitute
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I dream of a day when I can go into a church confessional, and by confessing the number of women I have had sex with give the priest a heart attack.
I also dream of a day when they are no churches, so I'm not really quite sure what I want really :P
I don't get that- what's wrong with religion?.
That was just me making a joke, so...ya know, cba to go into why I think religion is pointless in modern society where laws and social norms are the 'moral code' people follow without thinking about it so we don't really need any religion to tell us how to think :P
Anyhoo, yeah. To be honest I feel like in order for me to lose my virginity, I'd have to learn how to be...human, for lack of a better word. My first/only now-ex-girlfriend was (amongst other things) an attempt to learn the social conventions behind relationships, I was trusting (for lack of a better word) her to point out what I did wrong and help...mould me, really. I probably should have told her these things, she just thought I was a jerk when really I was way out of my comfort zone and clueless as to how to react and act.
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hmm yeah, same here.. Well, not exactly, mostly because girls don't know if you are virgin or not, seriously who the !@#$% tell a girl that he is virgin >_>? the only way is that one of your buddies tell a girl about it, but still, if he does that he isn't a buddy really >_<.
If a girl asked me if I were a virgin I'd tell her. Why the hell would I get a friend to tell her? That's just plain stupid.
HUR HUR TELL HER IM VIRGIN MEBE SHE LIKE ME.
I find it dumb that a girl asked you about your virginity <.< I would question why she wants to know, unless you are going to have sex or just had sex. I find it dumb the other way lol I didn't mean that, Aliento did understood me :
You must have misunderstood. I'm fairly certain he meant if your friend was being a JERK and went up to some girl you like and is all "Oh haha he's a virgin", cockblocking you.
That! and Apart you will be dumb to tell a friend you are a virgin, unless you are heavily drunk, I reccomend people to evade answering that question for example:
Friend: are you virgin?
You: No, I !@#$% your mom/Thats a question I can't answer/why do you want to know? want me to teach you some poses or wut?/ etc.etc..
Seriously In here nobody knows who is virgin or not, it is something people don't tell.
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hmm yeah, same here.. Well, not exactly, mostly because girls don't know if you are virgin or not, seriously who the !@#$% tell a girl that he is virgin >_>? the only way is that one of your buddies tell a girl about it, but still, if he does that he isn't a buddy really >_<.
If a girl asked me if I were a virgin I'd tell her. Why the hell would I get a friend to tell her? That's just plain stupid.
HUR HUR TELL HER IM VIRGIN MEBE SHE LIKE ME.
I find it dumb that a girl asked you about your virginity <.< I would question why she wants to know, unless you are going to have sex or just had sex.
Maybe she's curious?
Maybe it came up in a conversation?
There are many reasons as why a girl could as that question.
Just because she asks doesn't automatically mean she wants to have sex. Clearly you don't understand girls.
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I dream of a day when I can go into a church confessional, and by confessing the number of women I have had sex with give the priest a heart attack.
I also dream of a day when they are no churches, so I'm not really quite sure what I want really :P
I don't get that- what's wrong with religion?
Anyway, keeping it on topic, I !@#$% hate being a virgin. Sooner I lose it, the better.
Prostitute
No thx
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hmm yeah, same here.. Well, not exactly, mostly because girls don't know if you are virgin or not, seriously who the !@#$% tell a girl that he is virgin >_>? the only way is that one of your buddies tell a girl about it, but still, if he does that he isn't a buddy really >_<.
If a girl asked me if I were a virgin I'd tell her. Why the hell would I get a friend to tell her? That's just plain stupid.
HUR HUR TELL HER IM VIRGIN MEBE SHE LIKE ME.
I find it dumb that a girl asked you about your virginity <.< I would question why she wants to know, unless you are going to have sex or just had sex.
Maybe she's curious?
Maybe it came up in a conversation?
There are many reasons as why a girl could as that question.
Just because she asks doesn't automatically mean she wants to have sex. Clearly you don't understand girls.
o.O I never mean that why are you always miss reading every single thing I say.. what I ment is the following:
If a girl ask you about it, I would question her about it (seriously why does a girl wants to know about your virginity?), but obviously you will tell her or lie at her, I find it dumb that she ask you that. BUT if you are about to have sex or had sex with a girl and she ask you, I wouldn't hesitate to answer.
and! Even if she is curiuos or came in a conversation I would say something like "girls don't need to know that" or "none of your interest", it is like asking a girl when they first kissed a boy, or when was the first time they had sex. It is an odd question that they might answer "boys don't need to know that" or "none of your interest", I know she might ask or it came it a conversation but frankly it is not something a normal girl would ask..
and !@#$% zidane, since you became a mod I started to hate you, :/. nothing personal.
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Kren, conversations can go in crazy new directions, a conversation about puppies can turn into a conversation about orgies with surprising and disturbing ease, it's not too hard to imagine the topic of virginity arising in a random, normal every-day conversation, so asking you about your virginity or lack-there-of also can easily appear.
and !@#$% zidane, since you became a mod I started to hate you, :/. nothing personal.
Translation: You were always a Jerk, but you were the cool kind of jerk I'd like to have a pint down the pub with some time. Then you became a mod. Now you're the kind of jerk I'd like to hit around the head with a snooker cue down the pub some time. What happened to you man?
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o.O I never mean that why are you always miss reading every single thing I say..
Probably because 85% of the time I can't understand anything you say.
and! Even if she is curiuos or came in a conversation I would say something like "girls don't need to know that" or "none of your interest", it is like asking a girl when they first kissed a boy, or when was the first time they had sex. It is an odd question that they might answer "boys don't need to know that" or "none of your interest", I know she might ask or it came it a conversation but frankly it is not something a normal girl would ask..
How is it some a normal girl wouldn't ask? What's your definition of a normal girl? A girl who colors and likes Ponies and wishes a Prince in shining armor would come and sweep her off her feet?
Seriously, girls are much more open these days, you should really talk to more girls.
and !@#$% zidane, since you became a mod I started to hate you, :/. nothing personal.
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and !@#$% zidane, since you became a mod I started to hate you, :/. nothing personal.
Well I'm not here to be liked so I could care less.
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o.O I never mean that why are you always miss reading every single thing I say..
Probably because 85% of the time I can't understand anything you say.
and! Even if she is curiuos or came in a conversation I would say something like "girls don't need to know that" or "none of your interest", it is like asking a girl when they first kissed a boy, or when was the first time they had sex. It is an odd question that they might answer "boys don't need to know that" or "none of your interest", I know she might ask or it came it a conversation but frankly it is not something a normal girl would ask..
How is it some a normal girl wouldn't ask? What's your definition of a normal girl? A girl who colors and likes Ponies and wishes a Prince in shining armor would come and sweep her off her feet?
Seriously, girls are much more open these days, you should really talk to more girls.
and !@#$% zidane, since you became a mod I started to hate you, :/. nothing personal.
and !@#$% zidane, since you became a mod I started to hate you, :/. nothing personal.
Well I'm not here to be liked so I could care less.
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That means you in fact DO care about it. You mean "couldn't care less", as in you could not physically care less. God I hate it when people do that. Is it really that hard to realise this?
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That means you in fact DO care about it. You mean "couldn't care less", as in you could not physically care less. God I hate it when people do that. Is it really that hard to realise this?
Who !@#$% cares. Stop going into topics just to correct peoples spelling and grammar mistakes. Knock it off.
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That means you in fact DO care about it. You mean "couldn't care less", as in you could not physically care less. God I hate it when people do that. Is it really that hard to realise this?
Who !@#$% cares. Stop going into topics just to correct peoples spelling and grammar mistakes. Knock it off.
Hes just being a sore !@#$%.
Hes trying to make out that our sentences make about as much sense as EDGEs did. Either that or he gets off on grammar.
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Translation: You were always a Jerk, but you were the cool kind of jerk I'd like to have a pint down the pub with some time. Then you became a mod. Now you're the kind of jerk I'd like to hit around the head with a snooker cue down the pub some time. What happened to you man?
Exactly.
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ermm hmm, the thing is that even if girls are more open they will not ask your virginity, atleast in here they don't do that, and I talk with girls half my facebook and half my msn is full with girls and non of those girls have ever asked my virginity, maybe in the place your live they are open, but in my definition and in my country when a girl ask that she wants to have sex o.O..
I know in Usa or europe it is normal for girls to go crazy and drunk each weekend and have sex (lol superbad movie), but in here it is not like that. Sorry If im wrong with the last statement but I don't live in Usa, so I don't know what is normal in there. I actually asked my friends and they were like "o.O?" and said "It is not normal".
Probably because 85% of the time I can't understand anything you say.
The funny thing is that everyone else understands me except you >_>. This is like the fourth time I argue with you.
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That means you in fact DO care about it. You mean "couldn't care less", as in you could not physically care less. God I hate it when people do that. Is it really that hard to realise this?
Who !@#$% cares. Stop going into topics just to correct peoples spelling and grammar mistakes. Knock it off.
Hes just being a sore !@#$%.
Hes trying to make out that our sentences make about as much sense as EDGEs did. Either that or he gets off on grammar.
The first one. The phrase "I could care less" is one of my pet hates. :P
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ermm hmm, the thing is that even if girls are more open they will not ask your virginity, atleast in here they don't do that, and I talk with girls half my facebook and half my msn is full with girls and non of those girls have ever asked my virginity, maybe in the place your live they are open, but in my definition and in my country when a girl ask that she wants to have sex o.O..
Then maybe all the girls are whores where you live.
I know in Usa or europe it is normal for girls to go crazy and drunk each weekend and have sex (lol superbad movie), but in here it is not like that. Sorry If im wrong with the last statement but I don't live in Usa, so I don't know what is normal in there. I actually asked my friends and they were like "o.O?" and said "It is not normal".
... You... You base your judgement of American girls off a comedy movie? Wow.
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Imagine, if you will, someone makes a joke about sex during a conversation, and the whole conversation turns there. Then someone says they have never had sex, and one of the girls goes "me neither", before turning to you and saying "What about you? You ever had sex?"
Would you think she wanted an orgy or was just asking?
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ermm hmm, the thing is that even if girls are more open they will not ask your virginity, atleast in here they don't do that, and I talk with girls half my facebook and half my msn is full with girls and non of those girls have ever asked my virginity, maybe in the place your live they are open, but in my definition and in my country when a girl ask that she wants to have sex o.O..
Then maybe all the girls are whores where you live.
I know in Usa or europe it is normal for girls to go crazy and drunk each weekend and have sex (lol superbad movie), but in here it is not like that. Sorry If im wrong with the last statement but I don't live in Usa, so I don't know what is normal in there. I actually asked my friends and they were like "o.O?" and said "It is not normal".
... You... You base your judgement of American girls off a comedy movie? Wow.
hmm whores because they don't admit being virgin? lol, and no I am not based on a comedy movie, but with what you are saying and from what I have heard from many friends(that used to live in USA) is that they normaly get drunk, I just mentioned superbad because it reminded me to that, but it has nothing to do with the topic in general.
Imagine, if you will, someone makes a joke about sex during a conversation, and the whole conversation turns there. Then someone says they have never had sex, and one of the girls goes "me neither", before turning to you and saying "What about you? You ever had sex?"
Would you think she wanted an orgy or was just asking?
hmm. yeah thats a good point.. but again I would answer with the previously posted answers for that question :P If it is a not so closer friend I would say maybe if it is a really close friend I would answer something like "hey if you are my friend you should know the answer", but in here it is not normal to talk about that around girls, <-< the only thing I have ever asked a girl related to that is if she has french kissed a boy. I just don't think it is normal nor appropiate to ask a girl about her virginity, or her asking you about your virginity.
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ermm hmm, the thing is that even if girls are more open they will not ask your virginity, atleast in here they don't do that, and I talk with girls half my facebook and half my msn is full with girls and non of those girls have ever asked my virginity, maybe in the place your live they are open, but in my definition and in my country when a girl ask that she wants to have sex o.O..
Then maybe all the girls are whores where you live.
I know in Usa or europe it is normal for girls to go crazy and drunk each weekend and have sex (lol superbad movie), but in here it is not like that. Sorry If im wrong with the last statement but I don't live in Usa, so I don't know what is normal in there. I actually asked my friends and they were like "o.O?" and said "It is not normal".
... You... You base your judgement of American girls off a comedy movie? Wow.
hmm whores because they don't admit being virgin? lol, and no I am not based on a comedy movie, but with what you are saying and from what I have heard from many friends(that used to live in USA) is that they normaly get drunk, I just mentioned superbad because it reminded me to that, but it has nothing to do with the topic in general.
Imagine, if you will, someone makes a joke about sex during a conversation, and the whole conversation turns there. Then someone says they have never had sex, and one of the girls goes "me neither", before turning to you and saying "What about you? You ever had sex?"
Would you think she wanted an orgy or was just asking?
hmm. yeah thats a good point.. but again I would answer with the previously posted answers for that question :P If it is a not so closer friend I would say maybe if it is a really close friend I would answer something like "hey if you are my friend you should know the answer", but in here it is not normal to talk about that around girls, <-< the only thing I have ever asked a girl related to that is if she has french kissed a boy. I just don't think it is normal nor appropiate to ask a girl about her virginity, or her asking you about your virginity.
It's just a !@#$% question, can we shut the !@#$% up about whether or not it was appropriate or something that's normal in your culture now?
And Chris, you're just !@#$% making it worse, and you're just as annoying as the motherfuckers who keep posting the stupid !@#$% you keep linking me to :/
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ermm hmm, the thing is that even if girls are more open they will not ask your virginity, atleast in here they don't do that, and I talk with girls half my facebook and half my msn is full with girls and non of those girls have ever asked my virginity, maybe in the place your live they are open, but in my definition and in my country when a girl ask that she wants to have sex o.O..
Then maybe all the girls are whores where you live.
I know in Usa or europe it is normal for girls to go crazy and drunk each weekend and have sex (lol superbad movie), but in here it is not like that. Sorry If im wrong with the last statement but I don't live in Usa, so I don't know what is normal in there. I actually asked my friends and they were like "o.O?" and said "It is not normal".
... You... You base your judgement of American girls off a comedy movie? Wow.
hmm whores because they don't admit being virgin? lol, and no I am not based on a comedy movie, but with what you are saying and from what I have heard from many friends(that used to live in USA) is that they normaly get drunk, I just mentioned superbad because it reminded me to that, but it has nothing to do with the topic in general.
Imagine, if you will, someone makes a joke about sex during a conversation, and the whole conversation turns there. Then someone says they have never had sex, and one of the girls goes "me neither", before turning to you and saying "What about you? You ever had sex?"
Would you think she wanted an orgy or was just asking?
hmm. yeah thats a good point.. but again I would answer with the previously posted answers for that question :P If it is a not so closer friend I would say maybe if it is a really close friend I would answer something like "hey if you are my friend you should know the answer", but in here it is not normal to talk about that around girls, <-< the only thing I have ever asked a girl related to that is if she has french kissed a boy. I just don't think it is normal nor appropiate to ask a girl about her virginity, or her asking you about your virginity.
It's just a !@#$% question, can we shut the !@#$% up about whether or not it was appropriate or something that's normal in your culture now?
And Chris, you're just !@#$% making it worse, and you're just as annoying as the motherfuckers who keep posting the stupid !@#$% you keep linking me to :/
XD, I must agree, >_> since the start I found this a really stupid debate.
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XD, I must agree, >_> since the start I found this a really stupid debate.
Then why would you continue to 'debate' it and not just ignore it and leave the topic? Duurrrrr
Also, Ken </3 :(
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XD, I must agree, >_> since the start I found this a really stupid debate.
Then why would you continue to 'debate' it and not just ignore it and leave the topic? Duurrrrr
Also, Ken </3 :(
Why haven't you locked this long off-topic topic by now like you usually do? Rather odd...
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Why haven't you locked this long off-topic topic by now like you usually do? Rather odd...
Why didn't you report it for going long off-topic?
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Why haven't you locked this long off-topic topic by now like you usually do? Rather odd...
Why did you report it for going long off-topic?
I didn't...
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Why haven't you locked this long off-topic topic by now like you usually do? Rather odd...
Why didn't you report it for going long off-topic?
I didn't...
Fixed.
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XD, I must agree, >_> since the start I found this a really stupid debate.
Then why would you continue to 'debate' it and not just ignore it and leave the topic? Duurrrrr
Also, Ken </3 :(
Why haven't you locked this long off-topic topic by now like you usually do? Rather odd...
Because its about sex, obviously :P. All staff members are dirty perverts who want to know everything about the members sex lives.
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Why haven't you locked this long off-topic topic by now like you usually do? Rather odd...
Why did you report it for going long off-topic?
I didn't...
Fixed.
No u
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XD, I must agree, >_> since the start I found this a really stupid debate.
Then why would you continue to 'debate' it and not just ignore it and leave the topic? Duurrrrr
Also, Ken </3 :(
Just to give my point, and make you understand what I said since you ever misunderstand whatever I post :P duur. I also find it odd that this wasn't closed long ago >.<.
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Just to give my point, and make you understand what I said since you ever misunderstand whatever I post :P duur. I also find it odd that this wasn't closed long ago >.<.
I find it odd that you keep going even though you agreed it's a stupid debate and so on.
Locked.