It is difficult to speak generally, but a huge amount of testosterone will lead men to want to lose something; however, a significant number of men do not equate sex with feelings, it is more or less a perk of the relationship. I would rather that I be in love if I ever pursued something like that as even though I am an emotionally cold person, I would rather warm up to someone and not shiver forever.
It would not bother me if I only had sex with one person in my life, but I cannot really speak of something I know little about. As a human I should be into wanting to procreate and be communal with people, but in all honesty, that's a lot of work. It's odd to think this way, but I would rather have friends than lovers; although if my mind were impaired by alcohol I would be a total man !@#$%, my manhood is like a fat, rounded compass that points in the direction of sexy holes, but my mind keeps me fixed on other pursuits.