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« on: August 11, 2008, 10:15:37 pm »
My Views:
Sex: Act of love and method of reproduction.
Marriage: Act of love.
Love: Real.
Reality:
Sex: Self-pleasure.
Marriage: Exploiting other people.
Love: Someone to have sex with.
These days, it seems that sex is just a game for pleasure. Guys don't seem to care who they're !@#$% and girls don't seem to either as long as they get their pleasure. I see sex as an act of love and a method of reproducing. Don't want to reproduce? Don't have sex. Don't love your partner? Don't have sex.
What I think is love...
Love is not finding a woman who you think is "hot". Love is not finding a man with a giant penis. Love is when you find someone that you relate to, someone that you can share everything with, someone that makes your world go round, someone who is genuinely interested in you. Not just your looks, or your personality, but everything that makes you who you are. True love is when two people share these qualities for each other.
Might not be what others think is love...
Of course, my thoughts above are what I consider love. But love can be more than that, or even less than that, or have nothing to do with that. Love in it's simplest form is someone who makes you happy. If you think love is just a lot of self-pleasure, and a lot of self-pleasure makes you happy, then someone who is good at sex will probably satisfy you. But what happens when you both grow old? What happens when he can no longer "perform"? I don't think love should be based only around sex.
How do you know who to marry? I can't answer that question for you. Nobody can. That is for you to decide. It all depends on you and what you want. It depends on what you think love is.
To me, love is someone I want to spend the rest of my entire life with.