How would you feel if told you were unable to have children?

TheDarkJay

How would you feel if told you were unable to ha...

« on: July 02, 2008, 08:57:05 pm »

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I was just thinking about this for some reason today, "What would my reaction be if I was told I was unable to have children (aka. the troops won't get moving), but could still have and enjoy sex?", and I honestly can say, at the moment, after the initial shock set in, I'd request a high five and do a little jig. If I were to have a kid, in all probability they'd be an accident, because I can't see myself doing anything but running away the instance a women goes to me "Honey, I want to have kids."

What about you lot?

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Porkchop	Re: How would you feel if told you were unable t... « Reply #1 on: July 02, 2008, 09:06:45 pm »
Super Hero Time! Reputation: +0/-0 Offline Gender: Posts: 4859	I'd prefer the ability to choose when you have a kid. (inb4 abortion/safe sex) When I say that I mean like... I think tonight I'll shoot off my unimpregnating load. Logged
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« Reply #2 on: July 02, 2008, 09:07:06 pm »

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Someday I want to be a father, but if I could not brew my own juice I would just adopt a kid. It would not be the same as passing my own genes on, but still I could influence someone positively in the world and that would have to be enough. Also, in the future, stem cells could probably fix everything and I could pass on super genes so I would not be too worried. In all honesty, I have to get to the point where I have sex to where then passing on my own genes is relevant to me.

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bertfallen	Re: How would you feel if told you were unable t... « Reply #3 on: July 02, 2008, 09:19:41 pm »
Reputation: +0/-0 Offline Gender: Posts: 5213	Well it'd save me experimenting on how much of a !@#$% parent I'm bound to make. Though really its one of them things that when I lose the ability I can see me not liking it and wanting kids. I do from time to time consider it. But I really dont see me making a good father. Logged
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Kylink	Re: How would you feel if told you were unable t... « Reply #4 on: July 02, 2008, 09:25:49 pm »
Don't Worry Sir, I'm From The Internet. Reputation: +0/-0 Offline Gender: Posts: 2339	I would be really shocked and probably saddened. I would just adopt though. Logged
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शेफाली Shefali	Re: How would you feel if told you were unable t... « Reply #5 on: July 02, 2008, 09:37:09 pm »
虫めづる姫君 Reputation: +0/-0 Offline Posts: 2990	When I'm ready to have kids I want to adopt, so I don't care if I can't have my own biological children. Logged

Domo	Re: How would you feel if told you were unable t... « Reply #6 on: July 02, 2008, 09:40:00 pm »
Reputation: +1/-0 Offline Gender: Posts: 1569	I'm sure it would bother me not having the option -- I can imagine that having a little version of myself running around would be cool. At the same time I can't justify bringing a child into the world with over-population and all the other terrible things going on in the world. I do want to be a parent eventually, but I decided a while ago that when that time comes I'll adopt. Raising a child that wouldn't otherwise have a family to call their own is commendable no matter how you look at it. Logged
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Swoftu Super Fighting Robot	Re: How would you feel if told you were unable t... « Reply #7 on: July 02, 2008, 11:57:28 pm »
Reputation: +0/-3 Offline Gender: Posts: 3096	It won't matter because I'm going to die a lonely basement dweller. Logged

cb43569	Re: How would you feel if told you were unable t... « Reply #8 on: July 03, 2008, 12:09:03 am »
Reputation: +0/-0 Offline Gender: Posts: 2890	I would probably be a bit disappointed, but if it ever came to it, I'd probably adopt a kid (preferably a post-crying all night stage kid). Logged

Pyru	Re: How would you feel if told you were unable t... « Reply #9 on: July 03, 2008, 12:21:17 am »
whistle Reputation: +0/-0 Offline Gender: Posts: 2224	I guess it'd save me a lot of money on condoms? Oh who am I kidding, even if I did get some, I'd go bareback anyway. <__< Logged

Ness	Re: How would you feel if told you were unable t... « Reply #10 on: July 03, 2008, 01:35:06 am »
๏̯͡๏﴿ Reputation: +0/-0 Offline Gender: Posts: 2435	I'd be sad. But I'd probably adopt if i couldn't have children. Logged
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Moldrill	Re: How would you feel if told you were unable t... « Reply #11 on: July 03, 2008, 01:49:23 am »
Reputation: +6/-0 Offline Gender: Posts: 4472	Quote from: Regulus on July 03, 2008, 01:35:06 am I'd be sad. But I'd probably adopt if i couldn't have children. Same. Oh wait. I thought you said you would adapt. Not adopt. ...It'd still be fun to know you have no accidents to worry about (honey m pregnant). But I do want kids. My own kids. Not adoption though. Logged

AcidGame	Re: How would you feel if told you were unable t... « Reply #12 on: July 03, 2008, 01:50:54 am »
If not now, when? Reputation: +0/-0 Offline Gender: Posts: 520	It would not bother me unless my wife and I decided we want to have children. Obviously, in that situation, I would be upset. Logged

Pyru	Re: How would you feel if told you were unable t... « Reply #13 on: July 03, 2008, 01:52:44 am »
whistle Reputation: +0/-0 Offline Gender: Posts: 2224	Quote from: AcidGame on July 03, 2008, 01:50:54 am It would not bother me unless my wife and I decided we want to have children. Obviously, in that situation, I would be upset. As it is, I'm sure you and your boyfriend don't mind. (Taking the title of the topic quite literally, I would call whoever said that a liar. Especially if they weren't a doctor) Logged

AcidGame	Re: How would you feel if told you were unable t... « Reply #14 on: July 03, 2008, 01:54:10 am »
If not now, when? Reputation: +0/-0 Offline Gender: Posts: 520	Good catch. Logged

MG-Zero	Re: How would you feel if told you were unable t... « Reply #15 on: July 03, 2008, 02:30:33 am »
Doesn't afraid of anything Reputation: +42/-0 Offline Gender: Posts: 7002	I'd be a bit upset, but I'd just end up adopting. Logged
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pichuscute	Re: How would you feel if told you were unable t... « Reply #16 on: July 03, 2008, 02:37:49 am »
Pichuscute Reputation: +0/-0 Offline Gender: Posts: 173	I'd probly be sad at first, but I think I'll be a crappy parent anyway and I don't really want kids so it wouldn't bother me too much. Logged

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« Reply #17 on: July 03, 2008, 02:46:52 am »

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We and my girlfriend would be very upset, depressing and even talk on a bad way to each other on the following days after knowing. However, we're both lucky we're very supporting to each other, so, I would support her, and I know she would support me on such a big loss for our relationship. Since we've already talked about lots of things, like marrying, living together, babies, their names, how to educate them. It would be such a great loss, we are both waiting for the right time (I'm 16 atm, so... >_> it's still some years from now) for it, since we're both desiring to have such "fruits" of our love, and only those who really know what Love means would know its meaning and what this theme means and how important it is.
Basicly, me and her would be very depressed and would rely 24:7 on each other's support and wouldn't care about anything else until the fact "settles", then, I'm not sure if she would accept adopting a kid.

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Dantztron 3030 Mammy's Favorite Storyteller!	Re: How would you feel if told you were unable t... « Reply #18 on: July 03, 2008, 03:03:44 am »
b e p i s Reputation: +0/-0 Offline Gender: Posts: 3594	I'd be crushed. I mean, yeah, it would rule for however much longer I'm single...but I've always wanted to have a kid of my own someday when I was ready for it...it would be totally heartbreaking. =/ Logged
b e p i s Reputation: +0/-0 Offline Gender: Posts: 3594	Quote from: CeFurkan on September 10, 2010, 08:30:51 pm well i dont have that system and it is very hard to care about everything when you are single

Torak	Re: How would you feel if told you were unable t... « Reply #19 on: July 03, 2008, 03:52:47 am »
I have a post count! WTF I post? Reputation: +0/-0 Offline Gender: Posts: 309	Quote from: Ricky on July 03, 2008, 02:46:52 am We and my girlfriend would be very upset, So how many people are involved in this lovely affair? I honestly wouldnt know right now sure the ides of having a kid sounds nice but I dont know really. Logged
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