but once I finished that I was gonna stop.
Unfortunately that doesn't work. Someone could post 10 links to porn sites and then say "After the 10th I was gonna stop, so don't ban me." As mammy said, the chat is very dynamic in rule-enforcement as certain ops enforce certain rules more then others. I personally would not have banned for that, but for personal reference as well as chatroom operator's reference, if you feel you've been unlawfully banned, or kicked, I would copy the logs, or if you can't copy them, take a screenshot. I removed the most current ban, which may have been yours... Please make sure and double-check the chatroom rules, and always consider that there are other users in the chat with conversations of their own.