C++ is a somehow difficult language. It's one of the best languages, but it's hard, specially if you can't learn it by yourself. I think you should first learn another computer language (such as VB, GML, Java...) and then move to C++.
But anyway, do you want to know only the basics (i. e. functions, structures, pointers, classes, polymorphism, etc.) or also how to make graphics and sound? (i. e. Open GL, Direct X, and other libraries)
Also, Do you want to learn it to make games or just programs in general?