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Sex Stuff *mature content*
« on: September 08, 2008, 06:13:15 pm »
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I go on this girl website and there's a forum on there where you can post questions and advice and such.

And basically, some of the girls on there seem bothered if their boyfriend masturbates even if she pleasures him. One girl asked if it was wierd if her husband masturbated even though they have a healthy sex life. And some girls are bothered if their boyfriend watches porn too.

I'm not bothered by it at all, I mean, you cant see your partner 24/7 and you cant have sex 24/7. And guys can sometimes just be generally more horny than girls anyway.

I can understand why some girls might be bothered by it but it isnt really necessary to be, imo.

So I just wondered what you guys thought about it?
If you're with somebody and have a healthy enjoyable sex life, do you still think it is acceptable for either partner to still pleasure themselves?
Thoughts on porn? [Some (straight)girls like watching porn as much as guys do, and I know some couples watch it together, but I guess it just depends on your preference]
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Re: Sex Stuff *mature content*
« Reply #1 on: September 08, 2008, 06:18:33 pm »
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I think it's alright to do it. Just you shouldn't do it to much.
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Re: Sex Stuff *mature content*
« Reply #2 on: September 08, 2008, 06:23:19 pm »
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Porn and Masturbation don't bother me in the slightest. I tend to indulge in the latter more than the former, mostly because I find porn too crass, it has no beauty to it.

If I had a girlfriend I wouldn't mind if she watched porn or masturbated HAWT!!! :P Unless she did it because she preferred it to me, than I'd be really hurt...but that's mostly down to male pride ;)
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Re: Sex Stuff *mature content*
« Reply #3 on: September 08, 2008, 06:42:26 pm »
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<factorial_nine> "Male masturbation is a personal turn off for me. As a single woman, I'm especially looking for a man who doesn't masturbate, even while he's single."
<factorial_nine> GOOD LUCK, !@#$%.
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« Reply #4 on: September 08, 2008, 07:12:48 pm »
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Quote from: Swoftu on September 08, 2008, 06:42:26 pm
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<factorial_nine> "Male masturbation is a personal turn off for me. As a single woman, I'm especially looking for a man who doesn't masturbate, even while he's single."
<factorial_nine> GOOD LUCK, !@#$%.

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« Reply #5 on: September 08, 2008, 07:23:01 pm »
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Quote from: Moldrill on September 08, 2008, 07:12:48 pm
Quote from: Swoftu on September 08, 2008, 06:42:26 pm
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<factorial_nine> "Male masturbation is a personal turn off for me. As a single woman, I'm especially looking for a man who doesn't masturbate, even while he's single."
<factorial_nine> GOOD LUCK, !@#$%.

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^ this ^

I really couldn't care less to be fair. I think people are far too repressed about this form of thing.
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« Reply #6 on: September 08, 2008, 07:26:23 pm »
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What the !@#$% is wrong with these women.

A man that doesn't masturbate is not a healthy man, yes? Yes. I mean, I don't even see what's so wrong with it. Some girl (who's into Yaoi by the way, roflroflrofl) told me she finds it pathetic when a man masturbates.

wat

Why? Suddenly, pleasure is pathetic. And bad. There you go.

!@#$%.

Additionally, there's no such thing as "Too much masturbation". A man knows when too much is too much.
I learned that the hard way.



And with that, I rest my case, gentlemen. And ladies.

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<factorial_nine> "Male masturbation is a personal turn off for me. As a single woman, I'm especially looking for a man who doesn't masturbate, even while he's single."
<factorial_nine> GOOD LUCK, !@#$%.
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Re: Sex Stuff *mature content*
« Reply #7 on: September 08, 2008, 07:29:37 pm »
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Quote from: Kaede on September 08, 2008, 06:13:15 pm
If you're with somebody and have a healthy enjoyable sex life, do you still think it is acceptable for either partner to still pleasure themselves?
If it's a healthy and enjoyable sex life... why should masturbation be a problem at all?

I dislike when a guy / girl thinks that their partner is masturbating because they aren't good enough (that sounds so self-centered to me that it isn't even funny...). Now, I've never had sex, but I can't see how someone could fail so miserably at sex that their partner would prefer masturbation.

Masturbation is a way to cheaply and quickly pleasure yourself. That is all.
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« Reply #8 on: September 08, 2008, 07:32:30 pm »
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Repeated masturbation is healthy...I remember seeing a study somewhere that said masturbation for a male as a teenager ultimately results in their penis size increasing.

So yeah, that explains a lot ;)
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« Reply #9 on: September 08, 2008, 07:34:32 pm »
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Masturbating is healthy.

Also...

Quote from: Swoftu on September 08, 2008, 06:42:26 pm
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<factorial_nine> "Male masturbation is a personal turn off for me. As a single woman, I'm especially looking for a man who doesn't masturbate, even while he's single."
<factorial_nine> GOOD LUCK, !@#$%.

brb fapping
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!@#$% I lost my entire post, god dammit.
Re: Sex Stuff *mature content*
« Reply #10 on: September 08, 2008, 07:38:18 pm »
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Well, if he prefers to masturbate rather than to have sex with me, I'd say there's something wrong, but why bother if you still have a healthy sex life?
There's nothing wrong in masturbating, goddamnit. >_<

... and I kinda like the thought of watching porn together with your partner.
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Re: Sex Stuff *mature content*
« Reply #11 on: September 08, 2008, 07:42:18 pm »
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Some people simply have higher sex drives than others, sometimes the partner simply can't keep up with more than twice a day ;)

Quote from: Siri on September 08, 2008, 07:38:18 pm
There's nothing wrong in masturbating, goddamnit. >_<

HAWT!!!
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« Reply #12 on: September 08, 2008, 07:42:45 pm »
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 I understand how she'd dislike him watching porn, (Same reason why you don't look at other women when walking down the street.) but masturbation is silly. If males could, they would replace masturbation with sex at any time, but does any women really want to become a sperm disposal unit every time he gets an erection?

 Masturbation allows you to pleasure yourself and by doing that, avoiding forcing your wife into having sex every day. (Btw. General assumptions about women here coming from personal experience. My girlfriend wants sex less then I do, so, to avoid forcing her into it all the time, masturbation is the easiest thing to do.)
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« Reply #13 on: September 08, 2008, 07:47:32 pm »
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Quote from: TheDarkJay on September 08, 2008, 07:32:30 pm
Repeated masturbation is healthy...I remember seeing a study somewhere that said masturbation for a male as a teenager ultimately results in their penis size increasing.

So yeah, that explains a lot ;)
It's healthy up to the point where it becomes unhealthy.

Quote from: Siri on September 08, 2008, 07:38:18 pm
... and I kinda like the thought of watching porn together with your partner.

HÖRT HÖRT.

Quote from: Piers on September 08, 2008, 07:42:45 pm
I understand how she'd dislike him watching porn, (Same reason why you don't look at other women when walking down the street.)
Except of course if you're so insecure about something like this, there's something wrong in the first place. Only because I look at porn doesn't mean I want to have a fancy relationship with any of the girls and ladies shown in the clips.

I mean, come on.
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« Reply #14 on: September 08, 2008, 08:24:15 pm »
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It might be bothersome for the both parts of the relation if one "separates" from the partner to watch other persons. I mean, you have a sexual life and you see your partner "leave" you and masturbate with other persons. Wouldn't that lead one to think you are not satisfactory or pleasing enough? That's for sure.
It could be sacrificing, the well-being of the other part, for the sake of the other. I personally consider it like cheating. It's about respect for the other, that can hurt one's feeling unnecessarily.

However, the best number one thing for a couple is communication and that might be something interesting to talk about, as long as it's not troublesome.
Both me and my partner have a healthy relationship and a healthy sexual life and refuse to do something like that, it's just like I said above, and we love each other so much it's enough not to have interest in anyone else. Also, it's a sign of respect among us. And, we just can't do it. Basicly, it's just like cheating on her.
If I want to masturbate, I ask her to do it, if she wants to do it, I would do it for her. Simply enough.
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« Reply #15 on: September 08, 2008, 08:35:39 pm »
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Quote from: Fox on September 08, 2008, 07:47:32 pm
Only because I look at porn doesn't mean I want to have a fancy relationship with any of the girls and ladies shown in the clips.

Some girls find that hard to get their head around, though.

It's like when you see Josh Hartnett in a film or, like I did today, saw him in a magazine ad. mmmhmmmmmm. It's not like I can touch or experience him or would ditch my boyfriend for him if I magically had the chance, he just has a sexy image and is nice to fantasise about, a bit like porn.
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« Reply #16 on: September 08, 2008, 08:38:23 pm »
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Quote from: Kaede on September 08, 2008, 08:35:39 pm
fantasise about, a bit like porn.
What? You're fantasizing about other people? Am I not good enough for you?!
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« Reply #17 on: September 08, 2008, 08:43:09 pm »
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Quote from: AcidGame on September 08, 2008, 08:38:23 pm
Quote from: Kaede on September 08, 2008, 08:35:39 pm
fantasise about, a bit like porn.
What? You're fantasizing about other people? Am I not good enough for you?!
 ::)

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Fantasising about someone who lots of other people fantasise about too?
Like a boy watching a porn clip, he's not the only one to jerk off to it, therefore it isnt special, it is simply just a turn on.
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« Reply #18 on: September 08, 2008, 08:47:51 pm »
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Quote from: Kaede on September 08, 2008, 08:35:39 pm
Quote from: Fox on September 08, 2008, 07:47:32 pm
Only because I look at porn doesn't mean I want to have a fancy relationship with any of the girls and ladies shown in the clips.

Some girls find that hard to get their head around, though.

It's like when you see Josh Hartnett in a film or, like I did today, saw him in a magazine ad. mmmhmmmmmm. It's not like I can touch or experience him or would ditch my boyfriend for him if I magically had the chance, he just has a sexy image and is nice to fantasise about, a bit like porn.
In other words, you're okay with guys jerking off to porn.

Also, hey guys, what about drawn porn? </soronery>
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« Reply #19 on: September 08, 2008, 08:50:01 pm »
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Quote from: Fox on September 08, 2008, 08:47:51 pm
In other words, you're okay with guys jerking off to porn.

Yeah, I thought I mentioned that in my first post? :P
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