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« Reply #21 on: September 08, 2008, 09:01:56 pm »
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I go on this girl website and there's a forum on there where you can post questions and advice and such.
And basically, some of the girls on there seem bothered if their boyfriend masturbates even if she pleasures him. One girl asked if it was wierd if her husband masturbated even though they have a healthy sex life. And some girls are bothered if their boyfriend watches porn too.
I'm not bothered by it at all, I mean, you cant see your partner 24/7 and you cant have sex 24/7. And guys can sometimes just be generally more horny than girls anyway.
I can understand why some girls might be bothered by it but it isnt really necessary to be, imo.
So I just wondered what you guys thought about it? If you're with somebody and have a healthy enjoyable sex life, do you still think it is acceptable for either partner to still pleasure themselves? Thoughts on porn? [Some (straight)girls like watching porn as much as guys do, and I know some couples watch it together, but I guess it just depends on your preference]
This is extremely mature of you, any guy would be lucky to have you. I am a male, and I personally find nothing wrong with my significant other masturbating, id love to help but i'm not there 24/7 like you said. I think that some females (i'm being honest here please don't take this the wrong way) but, some females have had disgusting relationships in the past where they either felt neglected, or they have had their partner cheat on them. This is both disgusting and wrong, and it makes me sad for those women, but in their eyes, their partner is cheating in a way. This is not to say that it is right for them to feel this way but it is all psychological. Remember this is all my opinion and I hope I haven't offended anyone.
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