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Do you believe in no sex before marriage?

Yes, I'm saving myself for marriage
- 5 (12.2%)
Yes, I have had sex but I think it's a good idea
- 3 (7.3%)
I'm never going to have sex, even after marriage
- 2 (4.9%)
No, I think sex should be something which comes before marriage
- 4 (9.8%)
I'm never getting married
- 0 (0%)
I dont mind who I have sex with
- 7 (17.1%)
I'm going to have sex whenever I feel ready
- 20 (48.8%)

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Re: No sex before marriage?
« Reply #40 on: August 13, 2008, 02:25:27 pm »
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I would find it rather desperate and shallow for someone to dump someone just because they are not good in bed.
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Re: No sex before marriage?
« Reply #41 on: August 13, 2008, 02:45:42 pm »
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If the sex is bad, you are left ultimately feeling like crap afterwards. You cannot stay with someone who makes you feel like crap.
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Re: No sex before marriage?
« Reply #42 on: August 13, 2008, 02:58:23 pm »
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Quote from: AcidGame on August 13, 2008, 02:25:27 pm
I would find it rather desperate and shallow for someone to dump someone just because they are not good in bed.

I didn't say dump them for it, but surely you'd want your honeymoon sex to be awesome? If you've had sex with them in the past, and know not to expect anything too great, you wont be as let down. I'd never split up with someone because they were good in bed.
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Re: No sex before marriage?
« Reply #43 on: August 13, 2008, 03:01:35 pm »
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Quote from: SlimmyG on August 13, 2008, 02:58:23 pm
Quote from: AcidGame on August 13, 2008, 02:25:27 pm
I would find it rather desperate and shallow for someone to dump someone just because they are not good in bed.
I'd never split up with someone because they were good in bed.
Do you mean that you would never split up with someone because they were bad in bed? Typo?

Quote from: TheDarkJay on August 13, 2008, 02:45:42 pm
If the sex is bad, you are left ultimately feeling like crap afterwards. You cannot stay with someone who makes you feel like crap.
That is assuming that the only thing that makes you happy about the relationship is the sex. Right?
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Re: No sex before marriage?
« Reply #44 on: August 13, 2008, 03:14:38 pm »
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No <_< Relationships aren't a tally chart. You can't just go "Right, he made me feel good here but bad here...so he makes me feel more good than bad, so he's a good partner!". And even if you were to do that you'd have to times the bad count by 10 to get close to how people value good acts compared to bad ones.
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Re: No sex before marriage?
« Reply #45 on: August 13, 2008, 11:39:49 pm »
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It's kinda late now... but I'm sure it would add a lot to the moment.

- Sex: An act of love or an act of self-pleasure?
Both. We do it because we love it. I do it, most out of love, or at least, it's our case. But even if we just thing about the love, in the act you can't help not thinking on the self-pleasure and the pleasure of the act.

- Marriage: An act of love or a religious tradition?
Both. Mostly a proof of love and a very important achievement on the love story, and it's a great event for both of the couple.

- Marriage: Who do you know is 'the one' to marry?
Definitely, we trust 100%+ in each other and we're both certain it's with each other we want to spend the rest of our lives. I can't imagine myself with other woman. Every single act or gesture of her, I would miss it for the rest of my life.

- Love: A fairy-tale or real?
Very real indeed. However, it's individual and you can only feel yours. It's a pity it's invisible and even if you're full of it, you may not prove it.
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Re: No sex before marriage?
« Reply #46 on: August 14, 2008, 10:14:25 am »
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Quote from: AcidGame on August 13, 2008, 03:01:35 pm
Quote from: SlimmyG on August 13, 2008, 02:58:23 pm
Quote from: AcidGame on August 13, 2008, 02:25:27 pm
I would find it rather desperate and shallow for someone to dump someone just because they are not good in bed.
I'd never split up with someone because they were good in bed.
Do you mean that you would never split up with someone because they were bad in bed? Typo?

Yeah sorry, this is what I meant.
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Re: No sex before marriage?
« Reply #47 on: August 14, 2008, 11:17:09 am »
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Quote from: TheDarkJay on August 13, 2008, 03:14:38 pm
No <_< Relationships aren't a tally chart. You can't just go "Right, he made me feel good here but bad here...so he makes me feel more good than bad, so he's a good partner!".

Actually, that's pretty much how it tends to go. Couples that last have proven to be couples whose good times outweigh the bad, because obviously every relationship has both.
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