Indeed, this is quite the conundrum. On one hand, your father, a lifetime parental figure who has a great influence over you, says that you may not cross the border and purchase an XBOX360. On the other hand, you, a simple carbon based lifeform who desires self-pleasure in high definition, wishes to cross the aforementioned border and bring home an XBOX360. Why, one might say that you are in a bit of a pickle, hmm? The best advice I can give is to find the answer within yourself, as only you have the power to change the problems of today's society in your community. Given enough time, your problem shall dissolve, and one may say you'll be a stronger, more durable being as a result.